tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5712389670194627802024-02-24T22:56:46.007-08:00A Stuffed LifeThe every day life, work, philosophies and musings of an eccentric teddy bear artist.Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.comBlogger820125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-83258422825157416162016-11-02T08:35:00.001-07:002016-11-03T03:54:52.588-07:00A Brand New BlogHi everyone, I know many of you have been asking where I went...well at long last I have started a new blog. You can find me at:<br />
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Yes I know it's been a while again since I posted. I was busying working through the holidays, and then company came. But we were about to go on to 2014 and I was READY! I had plans, and ideas for new pieces and a new layout in mind for my website....it was going to be good. I was going to start off the new year with a bang!<br />
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Life has a funny way of derailing your plans though. It started because of shopping out in public I am sure. I got that nasty flu that was going around this year. Surprisingly R got it as well. He never gets sick. Then for the next 5 weeks we passed it back and forth. I would think I was finally over it and bam...the next day sick again. After dealing with that for so long, naturally I developed a severe sinus infection. Such is the way of having flu and allergies.<br />
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One morning a few days into the new year I woke up and my ear was leaking a thin liquid. My headache/sinus pressure had reached an all time high. I struggled through the day and finally about 7 at night it had gotten so bad I thought my head was literally going to explode. R was working late, it was freezing cold outside, but I bundled myself up and drove to the closest ER. They said from the pressure in my head, I had "perforated" my eardrum. That is a nice way to say it burst. The next day the other eardrum followed suit. <br />
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They referred me to an ENT. I went to him a few days later, and truly disliked this man. He was one of those doctors that doesn't listen to you. I don't like that. It's my body, I know what is going on and maybe you will too if you listen. He said he didn't think I had a sinus infection, but that I clench my jaw at night. Really? So what is this water leaking from my eyes and ears?<br />
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Anyway a CAT scan and an appointment for allergy testing later, I was less impressed. I had told the man several times I had severe allergies that at times incapacitate me. On my last visit he asked me if I had considered the possibility that I had allergies....um well yeah since I told you three times...please listen to me...<br />
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Last week I was scheduled for the allergy test, but I woke up the morning before and brushed my teeth. I had a strange premonition that my crown was going to fall out....and by golly later that night it did. So instead of allergy testing I made an emergency run to the dentist. My regular dentist...who I truly adore, he is such a good dentist...was out of the office so I saw the other one. I hadn't previously met her, but she was quite nice and through the course of conversation I discovered her husband is a doctor who specialized in allergies.<br />
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I now have an appointment with him. Apparently he is supposed to be quite nice, a very good doctor and wonderful at giving shots. (YAY!) He also has a program to desensitize you to what you are allergic to over the course of one day. ONE DAY!!! From what I understand it's not the most pleasant day, and it's very long but I can endure it if it takes away the misery of many days. They have a nice room set up for it too, to try to make it as pleasant as such a thing can be.<br />
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So through all of these things....something good has come. Hence the silver lining in a very dark cloud. I have always maintained that miracles are not about what happens, but the <i>timing</i> of what happens. <br />
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Clearly this difficult road I have been on has led me to this place. I am in great hopes that this works. It feels right somehow even though I have not yet met this doctor. I guess I just know it in the same way I knew my crown was going to fall out. Perhaps soon I shall be functional again and can get things made, and the house cleaned and all the things I need to do.<br />
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I have a feeling blue skies are finally on the horizon, but for now....my head is throbbing and I need to take my allergy meds and go to bed. I shall try to keep you updated on my progress.<br />
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Even though I am a month late, I hope you all have a wonderful and prosperous new year!<br />
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<br />Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-57709933079189027802013-08-13T13:04:00.001-07:002013-08-13T13:04:30.123-07:00More Flowers And A Bear Sneak Peek!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Just another painting...and yes a new bear FINALLY coming. This one is a 10 inch bear too!</div>
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Yesterday I was filled with such incredible joy at just creating things. How I have missed it. Off to dress a bear! </div>
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Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-91065903659122593052013-08-11T17:57:00.002-07:002013-08-11T17:57:31.356-07:00Wild Flowers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I painted some wild flowers. This will be my first ever painting offered for sale. It's 11 X 14, acrylic on canvas. $115, including US shipping. If you would like to have the very first one....e-mail me!</div>
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I am still painting. I saw some water lilies in Denver this weekend and I was inspired. It may not be Monet, but it was fun and I kinda like it!</div>
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I think I am on the right track maybe...but tomorrow it's all about bears!</div>
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Well I have managed to use a little more wild abandon, but...I still need more work!</div>
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Long ago when I was in college I used to paint. Mostly water color, but I was quite good at it. </div>
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That was a long time ago! </div>
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Recently I have rediscovered my love of painting but I am not good at it any more. I got it into my head that I wanted to paint a starfish. I have no idea why. I just did.</div>
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Now that it's done I have realized something interesting about myself and my work...I need to let go more. Things are too centered and too meticulous. I think painting should have a wild abandon sort of element to it. I guess we won't be selling this one. </div>
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I need to find that free and wild part of me. I rather suspect I need to find that part of me with the bears too. I have known I have been too meticulous and restrained for too long. It's that constant struggle to let things evolve naturally and yet have perfection. Those two things don't go hand in hand.</div>
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It's really no wonder artists drive themselves crazy!</div>
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More paintings and bears to come...stay tuned.</div>
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articles or books or even talk to your friends...it can be any number of
things. Maybe it's about organization. or maybe it's about cutting
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website. I am not sure who designed the dress, but it was clearly meant
for woman with a size F bra or something. Really strange. When I was
there I saw a pair of navy blue sneakers. I had no idea I wanted navy
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also have too many choices now of where our attention should go. TV,
computer, books, cleaning, work, friends and family wanting our
attention at any given moment. Those last things are very important.
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Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-77414559867206069312013-01-25T12:25:00.001-08:002013-01-25T12:25:58.106-08:00Reading The Fine Print<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Thread count is how many threads are woven into a square inch. Cotton is a natural fiber. In order to have 1500 cotton threads woven into a square inch the sheets would be quite heavy. These were the thinnest sheets I had ever seen. In order to get a thread that thin, it would have to be some sort of a synthetic. Cotton spun that fine would break when you tried to weave it.</div>
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I am happy to tell you that I am finally healing. If you didn't know what was going on, December 1st I fractured a rib. Then I had company...then I got the flu for three weeks...followed by a sinus infection. That's why there were no bears for Christmas. It was heartbreaking. I have ALWAYS done bears for Christmas. Actually I didn't get to do much of anything. R even ended up finishing decorating the tree. It was sad because I love all the things that go with Christmas. Things happen, what can you do?</div>
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Do you ever wonder if those weird little things you do are just unique to you or does everyone do them? They are usually those things you don't ever think to discuss with anyone. You have no way to know. I am going to tell you about one of my weird little things. I am curious if I am alone in this.</div>
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So it went like this...I was at the mall, in one of the high end anchor stores. I saw a small handbag by <a href="http://www.patricianashdesigns.com/" target="_blank">Patricia Nash</a>. I love clutch bags. This was leather...yes, I am sorry I love leather. Especially Italian leather. It was a great size, the style was perfect, and it was distressed. I wasn't sure about the color though, it was pretty vivid. And I knew it wouldn't go with anything I owned. Especially my shoes. I like my shoes to either match or at least compliment my bag. The tag claimed it was pink. But not really...more like if pink, orange and red intersected. Nor was I keen on the price. I put it back on the shelf. I kept browsing and found some nice things I liked, but I kept going back to the little clutch. Finally I bit the bullet after being drawn back to it 4 times and bought it.</div>
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Ok now for the fun part...since there were no Christmas bears, everything on my website at <a href="http://www.blondheart.com/" target="_blank">www.blondheart.com</a> is going to be on sale for 40% off until the 15th of January. If you would like a piece please just e-mail me with your paypal e-mail address, and I will send an adjusted invoice. The sale is first come first serve. No lay-away, sorry. Also this will be the <b>only </b>sale all year. I am going to be going in a little different direction. Take advantage of it while you can, there are lots of nice pieces available that would love new homes.</div>
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One of my lovely regular customers asked me to make some bigger pumpkins for her this year. While I was at it I also decided to make a "Green Ghost" pumpkin. I had seen one years ago in Martha Stewart's magazine and really liked it.</div>
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Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-57365637038605420142012-09-29T04:47:00.001-07:002012-09-29T04:47:37.455-07:00Halloween Studio Tour<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have three brand new pieces available at the <a href="http://www.halloweenstudiotour.com/" target="_blank">Halloween Studio Tour</a> you will have to click the link to see what they are....*winks*</div>
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<br />Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-29096469052368182732012-08-22T03:13:00.000-07:002012-08-22T03:17:26.728-07:00Letting Go<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Last week I went out to check my mail and discovered a very large toadstool in my front yard. It was about the size of a baseball. The next afternoon when I went to get the mail, it had nearly doubled in size. It's amazing how fast they grow. I meant to take another picture of it, but I didn't get around to it. </div>
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As you know I tried this weight loss program that my doctor recommended. While I have recently plateaued, I have lost a fair amount of weight so far. I also have come to understand why I couldn't lose the weight. That turned out to be a priceless gift, not only on an eating scale...but also I let go of some psychological baggage I didn't even realize I was carrying around.</div>
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I am offering 1/3 off of anything on my website at <a href="http://www.blondheart.com/" target="_blank">www.blondheart.com</a> through Wednesday at midnight for my blog and facebook readers. If you would like something, please send me an e-mail (using the link at the right) with your paypal e-mail address and I will send you an adjusted invoice. </div>
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Yesterday morning about 3 am, I had decided to go to bed early. That's early for me anyway. I finished what I was doing, I brushed and flossed my teeth, washed my face and slipped into my night gown. I decided to check my e-mail real fast. </div>
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I saw a breaking news announcement on the home page about something horrible that happened in Aurora. I didn't really read it, but instead I turned on CNN. I sat watching in disbelief as the horror unfolded. Aurora is just a shade over an hour away from me. In fact I had been in Denver just the day before.</div>
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What I saw broke my heart and reduced me to tears. The fear, the lack of understanding, the unspeakable horror of it all...it was so overwhelming in those hours last night. I prayed fervently for the victims and their families. I prayed that Colorado could be spared any more tragedy. We have had more than our fair share lately. I prayed that we could find some sense of it all.</div>
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Today I was on a forum I frequent. A teenager made the comment that they didn't understand what the point of living was if the planet was such a horrible place where these kinds of things could happen, and you couldn't even feel safe going to a movie. I immediately responded. Teenagers have a tough time in this world. I told them not to think that way. There are still so many good people in this world who do good things and care, and the best thing they could do is be one of them. But never think that way.</div>
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A while back someone who has a lovely public persona made it abundantly clear to me in private that they didn't care one bit about other people...people they knew and people they didn't. They live their life solely for themselves first. I was shocked at their attitude. At first I was a bit angry. I thought how can you be so unfeeling towards others. But then almost immediately I felt pity. The greatest disservice they do is to themselves.</div>
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A while back I saw the picture of the locket shown above on Pinterest. I did a web search to find that locket. I had to have it. I did find it...it was made by the lovely <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/lizlamoreux" target="_blank">Liz Lamoreux</a>. I immediately bought it. I am a firm believer in loving big...it's the only way I know how to do it.</div>
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One of the best things we can do is look beyond ourselves, and LOVE BIG. Love your family, your friends, your community, and humanity on the whole. Love strangers. Love enemies. That one is a tall order. It won't bring back those that have been lost to tragedy, but you never know...if you LOVE BIG, it too might have a farther reaching effect than you can imagine. I have said many times on this very blog, and in real life that we live on a small isolated planet, if we don't take care of each other...who will? I don't expect anyone to be perfect or never have an off day...or even to never be less than kind to someone who doesn't deserve it...trust me I have those days, and I have done it too. But try to show by example that this world is still worth living in. The best way to do that is to overcome and love a little more, show compassion, and even when you aren't inspired to, LOVE BIG!</div>
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I hope you all have a safe and wonderful weekend. And just so you know it...I love you all for taking time to read what I write!</div>
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Three years ago I planted Hollyhocks. Finally after all this time they have begun to bloom! My Grandma always had those in her garden when I was a kid. I just wanted to show them to you!</div>
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Also I wanted to tell you I will be away this week. See ya when I get back!</div>
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Hugs, K. <3</div>Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-86533338555630801582012-06-28T04:07:00.001-07:002012-06-28T04:37:54.559-07:00The Remains Of The Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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First of all, I want to thank everyone who took time to call me, send me e-mail, and post to my Facebook page. This out pouring of love and concern from you all really has meant the world to me especially since R has been out of town working, and I just wanted to say thank you.<br />
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Also I want to assure you that at no point so far (knocking on wood here) have I personally been in any danger from the fire itself. <br />
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I think if you have a TV and turned it on, regardless where you are in the world you have probably seen some type of coverage of our fire. People have told me from France, England, Australia and even India that they have seen it on their news. The one comment that people keep making is how widespread it is.<br />
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Yes it is, however I want to take just a moment and put that into perspective for those of you who are not familiar with Colorado Springs. I am sure you have seen that 32,000 people have been evacuated so far. That does seem like a lot, and it is. But we have roughly half a million people living combined in the city and the smaller outlying areas.<br />
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Also as of this morning over 18,000 acres have burned, but the majority of that is unpopulated forest. Only a very small section of town was burned. Which does not in any way minimize the loss we experienced, but it was all north west of interstate 25, and the vast majority of the city is east and south of that part. So don't think that the entire city is on fire, it's certainly not.<br />
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I won't lie to you though, things took a very real and intense turn Tuesday afternoon. We were all very nervous and scared. We had winds of 65 mph blowing east which brought the fire back over the crest of the mountain and straight down into residential areas. It happened in roughly 45 minutes according to the estimates I have heard. I believe it too, because the gigantic cloud of smoke was on top of my neighborhood so fast. We don't have any word yet on how many homes were lost.<br />
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What we do know is that no one was hurt, no one is missing, and the evacuations have been amazingly orderly and well executed. Also the Red Cross, Care and Share and a whole variety of other agencies have stepped up to help us and be prepared. The animal shelter is taking pets in so that people don't need to worry that they are being cared for while they are evacuated. There are also places for larger animals to be cared for while their owners are displaced. People are getting on the average of about 8 hours pre-evacuation notice, so people are having time to grab a few things that can't be replaced, important papers, photos and essentials. <br />
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As of right now, we have over 1000 fire fighters on the ground, planes and helicopters in the air and a convoy of military bulldozers arrived last evening to dig trenches. While that sounds like a lot, it's really not. Plus many of the fire fighters came here after battling the enormous fire two hours north of us for a couple of weeks. They are dehydrated, exhausted and dealing with extreme, record setting temperatures on top of the fire. Despite all that they are doing a phenomenal job.<br />
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President Obama is coming Friday to declare us a federal disaster area. We have already been declared a disaster area, but being declared a federal one will bring us more aid, which we desperately need. They are estimating it will take until July 16th to get the fire contained, and how long after that it will burn is anyone's guess. It's currently at 5% containment. <br />
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People in the city are really doing their part to help, there are tons of shelters set up in schools. Businesses have turned offices into bedrooms...it's truly amazing at how everyone has stepped up. There is literally no room at the inn either, hotels both here and in Denver are practically full to overflowing. So hopefully that helps you a little bit with putting it all into perspective.<br />
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As for me, Tuesday really was pretty rough. The smoke cloud, which I heard an estimation was billowing 30,000 feet into the air set directly down on top of my neighborhood almost 20 miles away from the fire thanks to the wind. At about 4-5 PM it was so thick it looked like night. I had an asthma attack, which I have not had one in over 5 years. I had to go to the urgent care and have a breathing treatment, and they gave me a script for an inhaler.<br />
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I could see the flames of the other side of town burning after the cloud dissipated. At that point it was moving so fast, and we really didn't know if the fire was coming our way or not. Luckily it didn't cross the freeway. I was home alone, R has been working in Utah. Normally I am good in a crisis situation, but this was pretty tense for me. They had the freeway closed for a while, and I was nervous R wouldn't be able to get home today. But luck was on our side and the freeway was open and pretty clear, so he made it home safe and sound.<br />
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Yesterday morning I had settled down and was about to go to bed when I saw something laying on my porch. I picked it up and that's the photo you are seeing above. Of course after I picked it up and photographed it they said on the news a half hour later if you find any of this stuff to not touch it because it could be asbestos or some other toxic thing, but I threw it away and washed my hands right after so I am sure I am ok. It still scared me to think something could reach all the way to where I was and made me think about blowing hot embers, which is such a danger.<br />
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So until they get the fire contained I will be praying for no wind and lots of heavy rain which we desperately need, and that it does not turn and make it's way back into town.<br />
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<br />Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-72646708687898420812012-06-26T03:15:00.000-07:002012-06-26T03:15:03.702-07:00Social NetworkingFirst of all I want to tell you all that we are doin ok here. The fire is still going, but we are hangin in. No one has been hurt and no structures have been lost as of yet. I have been posting updates to my Facebook page if anyone is interested in that.<br />
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Now on to the post...actually today I am going to repost a post I made 4 years ago because it still holds true. There has been some discussion about using Facebook and Twitter for selling. While there is nothing wrong with that, I do it too...I want you to keep in mind it's called <i>social</i> networking for a reason, so if you want to mix the two, I don't see a problem. Also keep in mind as you're reading we weren't using Facebook yet. So here is the post I made 4 years ago:<br />
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"I have a no soliciting sign on my door. Lots and lots of sales people
tend to ignore it and ring the bell anyway. It never occurs to them
that maybe there is a larger reason behind that sign than just not
wanting to buy something. I am a day sleeper. So nothing annoys me more
than having a pushy sales person at my door who not only ignored my sign
but also woke me up. Do you think that results in them getting a sale?
No. Never.<br />
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I view my computer screen the same as my
door. If I wouldn't let a person into my house through my front door for
any variety of reasons why would I let them into my house through my
screen?<br />
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As I have mentioned before I have my things for
sale on my website and Etsy. (I edited this because two of the sites are no longer around.) People talk a great
deal about promoting their shops on these sites. They want to know how
other people do it. I read these a lot. I have even tried a few of them
with little or no results. I also see them saying they promote their
shops to their friends and families. Really? No REALLY? I have mentioned
these sites as a whole to my friends and family and told them what to
expect from other sellers by looking at them, but I don't promote my own
shop to them. They already know what I do for a living. I don't know
about you, but if my Mother wants something I made I give it to her. She
is my Mother for crying out loud! The same with my friends, if they
insist on paying anyway...I certainly don't send them to an online shop
so they can go through the entire check out process, pay for shipping
and I can give Paypal a cut. If they did that to me I would find that
really strange and think long and hard about their friendship. <br />
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people don't think the site is responsible for promoting us, I don't
see why not...I am giving them a cut of my sales or a listing fee. They
have just as much obligation to promote me as I do them. They are
making money every time I promote in the simple fact that a new customer
will most likely be a return customer because they aren't going to just
stop at looking at my shop in most cases. They are going to look at
lots of shops and items for sale and probably in the end they are going
to buy something else on top of that initial purchase.<br />
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what about the rest of the world at large? What is the right way to
promote to them? We have Twitter and our blogs and all sorts of places
to network. But imagine if you will for a moment...an insurance salesman
in your neighborhood. If he rang your doorbell every day or even
several times a day to try to sell you some insurance would you
appreciate that? Would you just finally cave in and buy something? And
if you actually did, what if he kept coming back day after day to try to
sell you more?<br />
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Where did we get the idea that non stop
hammering was the way to make a sale? I suppose in some instances it
works. But I don't think I would sleep very well knowing that is how I
run my business. Coincidentally since I have stopped almost all self
promotion the past few days I made a sale last night...go figure! <br />
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suppose my perspective might be a little different since I did shows
and sold to shops and advertised for 25 years before moving my business
to the net. I was used to the regular sort of selling where I make the
effort to show up and the customer makes the effort to come and see me.
It was mutual agreement.<br />
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I saw a video the other day of
a man talking about social networking. He said he expects to make 0
dollars from Twitter. (This would also apply to Facebook now.) He views Twitter as a party where he meets people.
Once he gets to know them he invites them to his blog which he equates
to his house. In his house he has personal things and also things that
reflect what he does for a living. By getting to know people and make
friends they find out what he does and they are more likely to mention
it to someone else even if they are never going to make a purchase. I
thought this was brilliant. It's the way I like to do it. I post pics of
what I have just completed because I like to look at pics of other
people's stuff and I think many of them do too. I also think it's a good
way to keep a back up record of what I have made and when. I post a
link to where they can find it and I have links on the sidebar to where I
sell my works. If you want to go look you can. If you don't...no
pressure. I clearly want to support these selling venues because if I
didn't I wouldn't have shops in them. But ultimately I am in business
for myself because I want to make sales for myself. I do occasionally
post a link on Twitter, but I would rather just chat with people a bit
on there than post link after link after link. That gets old real fast.<br />
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find in the long run I have made more friends and more sales in the end
by doing it that way. Maybe that's why they call it SOCIAL networking
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So back to the present, in conclusion here, I just want to remind you that Twitter, which I no longer use because it became nothing but endless links to people's Etsy shops and other venues, and Facebook were originally created as ways for people to socialize. It's great that we can use them to show off what we do for a living. But I don't think people should be using these for nothing but selling. I know when I have a Facebook friend that does nothing but post links to things to buy...they are gone. I unfriend them. I did the same thing for the brief period I used Twitter. To see nothing but endless links to work is boring. You don't have to spill your entire personal life onto the screen either, but mix it up a little on these sites.<br />
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Today started off pretty good. R and I got up and headed up to Larkspur Colorado, which is a very tiny town about 30 miles north of our house. We were going to the Renaissance Festival. We like to do that every summer. It's always a nice day outside and a good excuse to eat steak on a stake and drink a little beer.</div>
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We have been having a heat wave though. It topped out at 100 degrees today which is just unheard of for Colorado. We stayed at the festival for about 4 hours and then the heat started taking it's toll on me. I kept getting dizzy and R was yelling at me to stay in the shade. Although there wasn't much in the way of shade to stay in. I am never very good in extreme heat, but I am also sick so it was a bit worse today.</div>
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When we got home we turned on the TV. A fire had broken out in Waldo Canyon. Now if you have been following the news, you know that we have already had our fair share of fires in Colorado this year. This was coming on the heels of our flooding I posted about a couple weeks ago. We are having a rough time this year.</div>
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About an hour ago they evacuated the entire town of Manitou. The fire crested the ridge and started down this side. The above pic is <i>not</i> a pic I took. I hate borrowing other people's pics, but this is the most recent photo I could find so I snagged it. (My apologies to the photographer since I can't credit you! I don't know who took it.)</div>
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We are on the far east side of town, so we are in no immediate danger. However they have recommended that we all pack a bag just in case. Although honestly I have no idea where I would go with my pets. I don't think it will come to that, but you never know I guess. We have had high winds off and on and it could potentially blow our way. It's still about 25-30 miles from me. So I am not overly concerned. But I did go outside a little while ago and the smoke was so thick I couldn't see the end of my driveway clearly. It's since dissipated, and things are clear again for now. </div>
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I have a throbbing headache. In fact it's so bad I couldn't sleep. The price of allergies I guess. At this point the fire is 0% contained, and I am hoping and praying that they get it under control really soon. It's very scary even though it's a ways away from me. I feel terrible for the several thousands of people already evacuated. It's just a little too close for comfort.</div>
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I will update you when I can.</div>Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-75033506800091646812012-06-14T22:56:00.000-07:002012-06-15T11:42:03.032-07:00Dirty Laundry<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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When I was getting ready to go to the airport to get R this afternoon I was watching "The Talk." Daytime TV isn't my thing, but I don't mind watching that show once in a blue moon. They were discussing a picture that posted to an English tabloid today talking about Sharon Osbourne having arm wobble. Sharon is very funny and said you bet I do! Well of course she does...she is 59 years old, had 3 children and survived cancer. I think there are a lot of things you could say about her far more interesting and flattering than that she has arm wobble. Who cares? Why is this news worthy...or for that matter even tabloid news worthy? Is it really going to draw ratings to pan the woman's age appropriate arms? The whole notion that people have to look absolutely perfect all their lives is ridiculous, even if they are famous. It's so damaging to all of us.</div>
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You can't go anywhere or get online without both news and tabloid news hitting you in the face. I don't really think that many people care about that stuff. I know I don't. Sure sometimes we read a headline in the grocery store check out line...but it's forgotten exactly 3 nanoseconds after it's read.</div>
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But this got me to thinking. In my last post I talked about when people take their personal differences and post it publicly online. Maybe to a degree it's not so much the fault of the individual, but a product of society as a whole that we have started thinking this is an ok thing to do. Afterall we have Facebook and Twitter for the sole purpose of posting what we are doing at any given moment. Social networking has become like our own personal news feeds. In the news they post everything and anything, whether it's true or not...the more scandalous or attention grabbing the better, so somewhere along the line we have started thinking that we should do this as well.</div>
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I have fallen victim to it too. I post this little thing or that on Facebook...if I am going on an outing or having dinner somewhere. My snakes in the garden issues. What my latest tally is on my diet...25 pounds by the way! Sorry I am feeling proud over that and want to shout from the rooftops. Plus a whole host of other little mundane things. But like the tabloids I suspect that when people read this stuff they remember it for all of about the same 3 nanoseconds as they would a tabloid headline, and move on. I don't expect anyone to hang on my every word, but I almost feel obligated to post something to Facebook at least once a day when I don't have a new piece to show off. </div>
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I don't suppose there is anything wrong with that, it's fun to keep up with what our friends are doing. But when it turns malicious or gossipy, is it a way for people to get ratings much like the tabloids try to do? To be honest I do think that plays a part in it for some, even though they don't consciously realize that's what they are doing.</div>
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All I can say I guess is the next time you read about a person, famous or otherwise, who has a few too many pounds here or there, has done or said something stupid they wish they hadn't, or had a fight with someone...instead of reading further, get out of your chair...walk to the powder room and have a good long look in the mirror. If you have 0% body fat, never done anything stupid you regretted, or had a fight with someone...then by all means go back and read what it says...you've earned it! But if you aren't in that category and are a mere mortal like the rest of us. Think for a moment before you continue, how would you feel if someone was reading your dirty laundry!</div>
<br />Kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04818135004045748078noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-571238967019462780.post-42356732011837353102012-06-12T14:22:00.000-07:002012-06-12T15:23:40.684-07:00A Dramatic Reading<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have a friend who is an author. She is always telling me I should write books. I do have lots of novels floating around in my head, but they never get committed to page. I am too busy making bears and doing other things. To be honest I am not sure I could do it anyway, or that anyone would want to read what I write.</div>
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When an author writes a novel they create characters and situations based on their own knowledge, experiences and perspectives. The hope is that the reader will identify and sympathize with the hero/heroine of the story. Regardless how good the author is at conveying what they want to get across, each reader will never fully interpret the characters or story in the exact manner that it was written.</div>
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We interpret what we read based on our own perspectives and experiences, and to a degree that can color the initial intent of the writer. I like the main character of Gray Pierce in James's novels, but I most identify with one of the supporting characters; Kowalski. Kowalski is tough and funny and has a thing for nice shoes and he secretly collects teddy bears even though he claims he buys them for his girlfriend. He is a great character.</div>
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If you were to read the novels, you might like a different character and you might interpret the situations these characters are in a little differently than I do when I am reading it. The stronger an idea is presented, the stronger the reaction from the reader will be...either for or against. That's perfectly natural. It's fine when we are reading fiction. The same thing happens when we read or write things on the internet.</div>
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This is what leads to conflict and drama. Regardless how diplomatic you are and how much you try to stay out of things, drama will eventually find you. Now if you're like me who has strong opinions on things and are vocal...it's a guarantee it's going to find you. Recently however, it found a friend of mine who is <i>not </i>like me, and tries to avoid it. Now don't get me wrong, I don't go looking for it either...but when I am involved, usually these things don't bother me overmuch, and I figure that something else larger is going on in the life of the person who is getting upset and that's making them overly sensitive...or it's a simple case of conflicting personalities. (These run on sentences are part of the reason I don't write novels, but I digress.) I know it will pass and a new drama will crop up gathering the attention of others. It's just a fact of life....but back to my friend. She is a very sweet person, and most people like her very much. On this particular day she chose to stand up for something she felt was wrong and say something. It wasn't really a harsh comment and too much was made of it.</div>
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When people have some type of conflict on the internet it usually goes that one person discusses the specifics of it on some type of public arena and the other one doesn't say anything. The person who discusses it usually is the one who garners the sympathy and is the hero of the story because it's written from their perspective. </div>
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I have seen this happen over and over. Then people tend to jump on the bandwagon and support the person telling the story. The thing I always find ironic is that the unnamed person they are agreeing is a horrible person is often one of their other friends and they don't realize it. I have had it happen to me, and nearly everyone I know has had it happen. It's probably happened to you at some point. Quite often it's someone they like and admire and would never think badly of based on what they know of that person, and they would never make the comment if they knew who it was. The other person gets their feelings hurt because they don't understand how their friends can think so badly of them. It's at this point I try to remind them that the friends in question are agreeing without knowing who it was or the other side of the story.</div>
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I urge you to remember this when you decide to support someone who is...well for lack of a better term...throwing a hissy fit publicly online. It's usually a case of mistaken intent or interpretation. Just let them get it out of their system, return to their normal sweet selves that you like them for and say nothing. Don't jump on the bandwagon, don't take sides. Remember that you are never reading the entire event as it played out in an nonobjective way. And unless they named names, you never know who they are referring to for certain and you might inadvertently end up hurting a friend you care about. I also urge you to not throw public hissy fits if you can avoid doing so. But I also understand that we are all human and these things happen sometimes when we get upset. Either way it's not the end of the world, and it won't ruin your reputation or your friendships with most people. Chances are not nearly as many people saw it as you think. We have the tendency to think the entire world read it when in fact it's just a small handful of people.</div>
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Drama and conflict are an unfortunate fact of the human experience. It's because we all come from different places with different experiences, core values, and things we hold dear. Naturally we all think ours are the best right answer even when we are open to other ideas. It brushes all of our lives whether we want it to or not. Good can come out of it however if people can resolve the conflict and work through their differences, or at very least hopefully we can agree to disagree and move on. The best choice is to work through these things in private, let others work through their things amongst themselves, hopefully in private...and save the dramatic readings for novels.</div>
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Alexander Demandt published 210 theories as to why the Roman Empire declined. They reigned as the superpower of the ancient world for hundreds of years. I am sure the cause of their fall was probably a combination of things. But I don't have any more insight to it beyond what has been published already.</div>
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What I can tell you is what most likely got the ball rolling. At some point I am sure they bought into the hype that they were unstoppable. It's at the precise moment that we begin to believe we are unstoppable that we should just fasten our seatbelts and put our tray tables in the upright position because we have begun the final descent. As soon as we believe we are invincible, it becomes our Achilles heel.</div>
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Despite this happening since the beginning of time, we don't always recognize that it is happening or is going to happen. Ironic isn't it? It's actually happening in the US right now. A few decades back we started to believe that our government and country was comparable to Camelot. That was also the start of our decline. Whether we will rise again or not remains to be seen.</div>
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So what happens when this cycle appears in our own lives? I think as artists it's even more acutely apparent. The industry as a whole also rises and falls in popularity. Artists become popular, and then they fade away for a while...replaced by something new. Sometimes they rise again and sometimes they don't. I always find it sad when someone fades away, never to be seen again.</div>
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I think step one is to simply recognize the cycle. We are in a fickle business and trends can change in the blink of an eye. As long as you keep making things you will keep selling things because there is always someone out there who likes what you do. You may go through periods where you don't sell everything you make the minute you make it, but you will sell. If you can support yourself through the lean times, then you will ride out the down cycle and be on your way to the next up cycle and be able to stay in business.</div>
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Recently an artist I adored has made a come back to the bear world. I couldn't have been happier when I saw he was back, he was a good friend who makes beautiful bears. I wish him all the luck and success in the world, and I hope others who have been lost follow suit. </div>
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I have been buying my groceries at the local Safeway for almost 13 years. In the past couple years, I have started going to Target more and more. We got a Super Target a few years ago. It's not that I don't like Safeway, I do. It's just that every single time I check out they want me to donate to another charity. I am all for charity, I like to do my part. I have been known to go over and above on occasions. But I can't donate every single week. It always puts me on the spot. I feel terrible and guilty afterward if I say no. I also don't like the judgmental faces of the cashiers and the people in line behind me if I don't do it. I have always said we live on a small isolated planet and if we don't help each other who will? But I can't help every charity every week. So as a result they are losing me as customer, because I would rather go to Target and avoid the whole thing sometimes. I even feel guilty for feeling that way. The other thing that I don't care for is being accosted by Girl Scouts outside the front door to buy cookies, Boy Scouts to buy whatever it is they sell, people wanting me to buy the paper...we already take it. I just want to go into the store and buy my groceries. Honestly that is hard enough all on it's own.</div>
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My second issue is that I saw a lot of potential for problems to arise. It has happened in the past that people have shared techniques from other artists. If an artist develops a new technique it should be their choice to share it or not share it, not someone else. </div>
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There is so much discussion on being unique, and people get very upset by the idea of something being too similar to another artist's work. The dreaded subject of copying comes up. But yet we are expected to share every little detail of what we do. I don't really get this mind set.</div>
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Again I don't mind sharing basics, but I am an artist not a teacher. If I do choose to teach, it's in a workshop situation, not a public Facebook group. So I was faced with an awkward dilemma, if I leave then I look like one of those artists they thought was so terrible. But if I stay my inbox is flooded and I belong to a group I don't really support. I did in fact leave. I am sure I will be thought bad of for it, but at least my inbox was quieter.</div>
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Our lives are filled with all sorts of issues we have to deal with on a day to day basis. It would be wonderful if we could avoid a few of these awkward situations that are unnecessary.</div>
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